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What does it mean?
Marriage success is portrayed as random rather than a result of planning or choice.
In plain terms
Marriage happiness is luck.
What can you take from it?
Accept that marriage outcomes vary randomly.

Where it applies

  • wedding
  • divorce
  • family life

Putting it to work

  • accept uncertainty
  • manage risk
  • value effort

Questions to consider

  • Is love luck or choice?
  • What makes a marriage?

Another view

Effort and choice do influence marriage.

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