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What does it mean?
Suffering in a place does not diminish love for it unless that place is defined solely by pain.
In plain terms
You can love a place even if you suffered there.
What can you take from it?
Pain does not erase attachment to place.

Where it applies

  • moving homes
  • traveling
  • reflecting on past

Putting it to work

  • accept mixed memories of locations

Questions to consider

  • Can a place be home even if it caused you pain?

Another view

It overlooks cases where trauma permanently alters perception of a place.

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