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What does it mean?
Surprises do not increase enjoyment and often cause significant trouble.
In plain terms
Unexpected events usually cause more problems than joy.
What can you take from it?
Avoid planning surprises that create inconvenience.

Where it applies

  • party planning
  • gift giving
  • travel arrangements

Putting it to work

  • plan events openly
  • communicate changes early

Questions to consider

  • Is the risk worth the potential joy?
  • How much inconvenience is acceptable?

Another view

Some surprises are cherished memories despite the hassle.

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