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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker prefers people who are not overly agreeable to save effort in forming attachments.
In plain terms
Unagreeable people save time to like them.
What can you take from it?
Avoid over-investing in agreeable people.

Where it applies

  • friendship
  • networking
  • daily interaction

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • choose wisely
  • save energy

Questions to consider

  • Who do you really like?
  • Why do you avoid agreeable people?

Another view

Agreeableness can be a valid social trait.

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