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What does it mean?
People today deny happy childhoods, thinking happiness implies insensitivity.
In plain terms
Modern people think admitting happiness shows they lack sensitivity.
What can you take from it?
We often equate suffering with depth.

Where it applies

  • therapy
  • social observation

Putting it to work

  • value happiness
  • question suffering's value

Questions to consider

  • Is happiness underrated?
  • Does pain make us better?

Another view

Some might genuinely lack happy childhoods.

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