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What does it mean?
Stubbornness often masks weakness rather than true strength.
In plain terms
Being stubborn is a sign of weakness, not strength.
What can you take from it?
Recognize stubbornness as a defense mechanism.

Where it applies

  • negotiation
  • parenting
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • address underlying fears
  • flex when appropriate

Questions to consider

  • When does stubbornness help?
  • Is flexibility always better than resolve?

Another view

Stubbornness can sometimes be healthy persistence.

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