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The enemy is like a woman, weak in face of opposition, but correspondingly strong when not opposed. In a quarrel with a man, it is natural for a woman to lose heart and run away when he faces up to her; on the other hand, if the man begins to be afraid and to give ground, her rage, vindictiveness and fury overflow and know no limit.

Ignatius of Loyola#5

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The enemy is likened to a woman who yields when confronted but becomes fierce and vengeful when the opponent retreats.
In plain terms
An adversary backs down when challenged but becomes angry when not.
What can you take from it?
Do not underestimate a foe’s retaliation when you show weakness.

Where it applies

  • negotiations
  • personal disputes
  • military standoffs

Putting it to work

  • maintain resolve
  • avoid provoking unnecessary rage

Questions to consider

  • Why do people react differently to pressure?
  • What role does perception play in conflict?

Another view

The gendered metaphor reflects historical stereotypes and may not be universally applicable.

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