When I went home to my family in May, 1770, from the town meeting in Boston, which was the first I had ever attended, and where I had been chosen in my absence, without any solicitation, one of their representatives, I said to my wife, 'I have accepted a seat in the House of Representatives, and thereby have consented to my own ruin, to your ruin, and to the ruin of our children. I give you this warning, that you may prepare your mind for your fate.' She burst into tears, but instantly cried out in a transport of magnanimity, 'Well, I am willing in this cause to run all risks with you, and be ruined with you, if you are ruined.' These were times, my friend, in Boston, which tried women's souls as well as men's.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Adams tells his wife he expects political ruin for himself and his family, but she accepts the risk with resolve.
- In plain terms
- He warns his wife of political danger; she stands by him.
- What can you take from it?
- Shared commitment can strengthen resolve in dangerous times.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What limits should be set on personal risk for public service?
- How does family support affect political decisions?
Another view
Romanticizing sacrifice may ignore practical consequences for families.
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