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What does it mean?
People often realize the value of relationships only after losing them.
In plain terms
We forget to appreciate loved ones until they are gone.
What can you take from it?
Cherish people while you still have them.

Where it applies

  • grieving a loved one
  • reflecting on past mistakes
  • family gatherings

Putting it to work

  • write thank you notes
  • call friends regularly
  • avoid taking others for granted

Questions to consider

  • Who do you take for granted today?
  • How can you show appreciation now?

Another view

Sometimes distance is necessary for personal growth, not just regret.

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