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For Christians above all men are forbidden to correct the stumblings of sinners by force...it is necessary to make a man better not by force but by persuasion. We neither have authority granted us by law to restrain sinners, nor, if it were, should we know how to use it, since God gives the crown to those who are kept from evil, not by force, but by choice.

John Chrysostom#10

JusticeMoralityFree willPersuasion

About this quote

What does it mean?
Force cannot create genuine moral change; only free choice and persuasion can lead to true virtue.
In plain terms
You cannot force someone to be good; they must choose it themselves.
What can you take from it?
Persuasion is better than force for moral improvement.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • justice systems
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • use dialogue over threats
  • respect others' choices

Questions to consider

  • When is force justified?
  • How do you influence others?

Another view

Some situations require immediate intervention to prevent harm.

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