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What does it mean?
Marriage is often likened to a public feast where outsiders want to join and insiders want to leave.
In plain terms
People outside marriage want in, while those inside want out.
What can you take from it?
Desire often shifts based on whether you have something or not.

Where it applies

  • evaluating relationships
  • observing social norms
  • reflecting on commitment

Putting it to work

  • assessing marital satisfaction
  • understanding human longing

Questions to consider

  • Do you ever want what you cannot have?
  • How does proximity affect desire?

Another view

The analogy simplifies complex personal experiences into a binary state.

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