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What does it mean?
Donne suggests that true love looks inward, while superficial love only cares about physical appearance.
In plain terms
Loving someone inside is real; loving only their looks is just loving their old clothes.
What can you take from it?
Inner qualities matter more than outward appearance.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • attraction
  • moral judgment

Putting it to work

  • look beyond surface level
  • value character over looks

Questions to consider

  • Do you value character over appearance?
  • What do you wear as your identity?

Another view

It oversimplifies the role of physical attraction in relationships.

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