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What does it mean?
It is better to yield or compromise than to resist until destruction occurs.
In plain terms
Give in rather than fight to the end.
What can you take from it?
Compromise prevents total loss.

Where it applies

  • dispute resolution
  • negotiation
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • choose battles wisely
  • bend to survive
  • avoid stubbornness

Questions to consider

  • When is it right to bow?
  • Is breaking ever necessary?

Another view

It may encourage unnecessary submission to injustice.

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  3. Hold their noses to grindstone.

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