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About this quote

What does it mean?
Trying to support opposing sides simultaneously leads to confusion or mistrust.
In plain terms
Don't try to please everyone at once.
What can you take from it?
Pick a side instead of being neutral.

Where it applies

  • politics
  • business alliances
  • personal disputes

Putting it to work

  • choose clear allies
  • avoid double-dealing
  • be consistent

Questions to consider

  • Is it ever good to play both sides?
  • Is loyalty more?

Another view

Neutrality can sometimes be more ethical than taking sides.

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