If you can't sleep with your own wife wearing a false beard, what can you do?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- If one cannot tolerate a small deception from a spouse, larger deceptions or life's absurdities will be equally unbearable.
- In plain terms
- Intolerance of minor falsehoods in close relationships suggests an inability to handle bigger truths.
- What can you take from it?
- Tolerance for minor deceptions is necessary for marital harmony.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What small lies do you find hardest to accept?
- How does intolerance affect your relationships?
Another view
The metaphor relies on an absurd image that may not apply to serious infidelity.
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