We are lonesome animals. We spend all our life trying to be less lonesome. One of our ancient methods is to tell a story begging the listener to say - and to feel - 'Yes, that's the way it is, or at least that's the way I feel it. You're not as alone as you thought.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Stories help people connect by confirming shared feelings and reducing isolation.
- In plain terms
- Telling stories makes people feel less alone.
- What can you take from it?
- Narratives bridge isolation by confirming shared experience.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What stories do you need?
- Who do you feel understood by?
Another view
Stories alone cannot solve deep social isolation.
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