We are so fond of one another, because our ailments are the same.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People bond deeply when they share similar struggles or weaknesses.
- In plain terms
- We connect with others who face the same problems we do.
- What can you take from it?
- Shared hardships create strong bonds.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What shared struggles define your closest relationships?
- Do you bond more over strengths or weaknesses?
Another view
It assumes shared ailments are the primary driver of affection.
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