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What does it mean?
Loving someone creates a belief system centered on an imperfect human.
In plain terms
Love is like making a religion where the god is a flawed person.
What can you take from it?
Accept that love involves faith in an imperfect partner.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • breakups
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • accept imperfection
  • balance faith and reality

Questions to consider

  • Is love a form of faith?
  • Who is your fallible god?

Another view

Love can also involve realistic partnership rather than religious faith.

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