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What does it mean?
Love begins with the realization that another person is irreplaceable and distinct from all others.
In plain terms
You know you love someone when you see they are one of a kind.
What can you take from it?
Recognizing uniqueness is the core of romantic attachment.

Where it applies

  • falling in love
  • reflecting on relationships
  • marriage vows

Putting it to work

  • write a love letter highlighting unique traits
  • discuss what makes a partner special

Questions to consider

  • When did you first realize someone was unique?
  • Does love require seeing someone as irreplaceable?

Another view

The idea that someone is truly unique can be subjective and idealized.

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  3. Que otros se jacten de las paginas que han escrito; a mi me enorgullecen las que he leido.

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