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What does it mean?
Happiness involves forgetting yourself, while misery makes you overly self-conscious and focused on your ego.
In plain terms
Happy people lose themselves in things; miserable people focus on themselves.
What can you take from it?
Self-forgetfulness is key to happiness.

Where it applies

  • personal reflection
  • mental health
  • mindfulness practice

Putting it to work

  • practicing mindfulness
  • identifying sources of joy

Questions to consider

  • When did you last lose yourself in something?
  • Does happiness always mean forgetting yourself?

Another view

Sometimes pain makes us more self-aware in valuable ways.

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