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What does it mean?
When an illusion dies, it feels like losing a child.
In plain terms
The end of a fantasy hurts deeply, like a child's loss.
What can you take from it?
Letting go of false beliefs can cause profound grief.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • career changes

Putting it to work

  • process mourning for lost expectations

Questions to consider

  • What 'illusions' have you mourned?

Another view

The metaphor may exaggerate normal disappointment.

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