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What does it mean?
When lovers unite, the outer ceremony matters little compared to their union.
In plain terms
If bride and lover are one, the wedding party does not matter.
What can you take from it?
Inner unity matters more than outer celebration.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • partnership
  • spiritual union

Putting it to work

  • focus on bond
  • minimize spectacle
  • value closeness

Questions to consider

  • When did the moment matter more than the event?
  • Why do we need ceremonies?

Another view

Rituals can help mark commitment even when feelings are strong.

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