When we enter a new situation in life and are confronted by a new person, we bring with us the prejudices of the past and our previous experiences of people. These prejudices we project upon the new person. Indeed, getting to know a person is largely a matter of withdrawing projections; of dispelling the smoke screen of what we imagine he is like and replacing it with the reality of what he is actually like.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Understanding people requires overcoming past prejudices and projections to see their actual reality.
- In plain terms
- We judge new people based on past experiences, but knowing them means removing these biases to see who they really are.
- What can you take from it?
- Remove past biases to understand people truly.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What biases do you hold?
- How do you see others?
Another view
Some biases may be useful heuristics.
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