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What does it mean?
Shifting focus outward reduces self-absorption.
In plain terms
Thinking about others helps you stop focusing so much on yourself.
What can you take from it?
Focus on others to reduce self-centered thoughts.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • practice active listening
  • volunteer

Questions to consider

  • How often do I think about others?
  • What distracts me from self-focus?

Another view

Some self-reflection is still necessary for growth.

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