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He said, 'Man, I just escaped from Exodus' [a treatment facility]. I didn't have any foresight that the guy was going to do what he did. I could tell he was bummed out, and I'd been that way before. We were at baggage claim, and I thought I'd ask him to come stay at my house. I turned around and he was gone... What if. Only if. A lot of my friends have died. If only he'd...

Kurt Donald Cobain#108

Mental healthFriendshipRegret

About this quote

What does it mean?
He escaped a treatment facility, seemed depressed, and vanished; the speaker regrets not reaching out.
In plain terms
He left a facility, looked down, and disappeared.
What can you take from it?
Missing chances to help can haunt us.

Where it applies

  • health crises
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • check in on vulnerable people
  • offer concrete support

Questions to consider

  • What can you do when someone seems distressed?

Another view

We cannot control another’s choices.

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