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What does it mean?
Vonnegut equates laughter and tears as honest reactions to struggle, preferring laughter for its practicality.
In plain terms
Laughing is as valid as crying and helps you move on faster.
What can you take from it?
Humor is a useful tool for coping with futility.

Where it applies

  • dealing with stress
  • writing comedy
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • practicing humor
  • managing grief

Questions to consider

  • Is laughter better than crying?
  • How do you handle exhaustion?

Another view

It dismisses the value of deep emotional processing.

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