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What does it mean?
People crave connection and reassurance that others share their feelings.
In plain terms
Many want to know others think and care like they do.
What can you take from it?
Feeling understood is a basic human need.

Where it applies

  • personal support
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • offer support
  • build community

Questions to consider

  • How do we know we are not alone?
  • Why is empathy important?

Another view

It assumes everyone shares the same specific needs.

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