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What does it mean?
The speaker distinguishes between personal priorities and what others can adapt to or come to like, noting that adaptation varies among people.
In plain terms
I know what's important to me and what others can get used to, though it takes different time for each.
What can you take from it?
Recognize your own values and be patient with others' learning curves.

Where it applies

  • making life choices
  • teaching new skills
  • negotiating preferences

Putting it to work

  • set clear personal goals
  • allow others time to adjust

Questions to consider

  • What truly matters to you versus what you expect others to care about?

Another view

People may never adopt what you consider valuable, regardless of time.

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