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What does it mean?
When life forces a change in self-image, people grieve who they thought they were.
In plain terms
If you change, you miss the old version of yourself.
What can you take from it?
Accept that change involves loss of the old self.

Where it applies

  • life transitions
  • breakups
  • career changes

Putting it to work

  • allow time to grieve
  • accept identity shifts

Questions to consider

  • Who did you used to be?
  • What makes you mourn your past self?

Another view

Sometimes the old self needs to be left behind.

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