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When I hear so much impatient and irritable complaint, so much readiness to replace what we have by guardians for us all, those supermen, evoked somewhere from the clouds, whom none have seen and none are ready to name, I lapse into a dream, as it were. I see children playing on the grass; their voices are shrill and discordant as children's are; they are restive and quarrelsome; they cannot agree to any common plan; their play annoys them; it goes poorly. And one says, let us make Jack the master; Jack knows all about it; Jack will tell us what each is to do and we shall all agree. But Jack is like all the rest; Helen is discontented with her part and Henry with his, and soon they fall again into their old state. No, the children must learn to play by themselves; there is no Jack the master. And in the end slowly and with infinite disappointment they do learn a little; they learn to forbear, to reckon with another, accept a little where they wanted much, to live and let live, to yield when they must yield; perhaps, we may hope, not to take all they can. But the condition is that they shall be willing at least to listen to one another, to get the habit of pooling their wishes. Somehow or other they must do this, if the play is to go on; maybe it will not, but there is no Jack, in or out of the box, who can come to straighten the game.

Learned Hand#13

SocietyGovernanceAuthorityCooperationLeadershipDisillusionment

About this quote

What does it mean?
Society cannot rely on external saviors to fix its internal conflicts; people must learn to cooperate on their own.
In plain terms
We need to learn to work together ourselves instead of waiting for a leader to fix everything.
What can you take from it?
Self-governance requires learning to compromise without a master.

Where it applies

  • debates on strong leaders
  • community organizing
  • political cynicism

Putting it to work

  • facilitating group consensus
  • teaching conflict resolution
  • critiquing authoritarian solutions

Questions to consider

  • Who is the modern 'Jack' people look to save them?
  • How do societies learn to play without a master?

Another view

It underestimates the need for some structured authority in complex societies.

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