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What does it mean?
Conventions protect us until we are strong enough to move beyond them.
In plain terms
Rules and habits keep us safe until we can stand on our own.
What can you take from it?
Conventions offer safety until independence is possible.

Where it applies

  • childhood
  • career
  • social norms

Putting it to work

  • build skills
  • respect norms temporarily
  • plan for change

Questions to consider

  • When is it time to break conventions?
  • What protects you while you grow?

Another view

Some conventions may outlast their protective value.

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