I wanted a happy-go-lucky guy. He has quirks and problems, but the thing is, he doesn't know he's got them. Hence, no tedious self-pity. He's smart and strong, an introvert, but any anguish he suffers is caused by others.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The author describes a character who ignores his own flaws to avoid self-pity.
- In plain terms
- A happy guy with problems doesn't know he has them, so he doesn't feel sorry for himself.
- What can you take from it?
- Ignoring flaws prevents self-pity.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is unawareness of flaws a strength or weakness?
- Can you be strong without knowing your pain?
Another view
Ignoring flaws can prevent necessary personal growth.
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