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Ivan Ilych saw that he was dying, and he was in continual despair. In the depth of his heart he knew he was dying, but not only was he not accustomed to the thought, he simply did not and could not grasp it. The syllogism he had learnt from Kiesewetter's Logic: 'Caius is a man, men are mortal, therefore Caius is mortal,' had always seemed to him correct as applied to Caius, but certainly not as applied to himself. That Caius - man in the abstract - was mortal, was perfectly correct, but he was not Caius, not an abstract man, but a creature quite, quite separate from all others.

Leo Tolstoy#5

DeathSelfDenial

About this quote

What does it mean?
People avoid accepting their own mortality by treating it as an abstract fact about others.
In plain terms
People understand death for others but not for themselves.
What can you take from it?
Confront your mortality honestly.

Where it applies

  • facing death
  • philosophical thinking
  • health crisis

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge mortality
  • live fully
  • prepare practically

Questions to consider

  • How do you face mortality?
  • Does denial protect or harm?

Another view

Some find comfort in not dwelling on death.

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