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What does it mean?
Even when left alone with automatic functions, humans still crave connection with friends.
In plain terms
We naturally want friends even when we are alone.
What can you take from it?
Social connection is a fundamental human need.

Where it applies

  • isolation periods
  • mental health
  • community building

Putting it to work

  • reach out to friends
  • build community
  • acknowledge needs

Questions to consider

  • Do you feel alone even with others?
  • Why do we need friends?

Another view

Some people prefer solitude over social connection.

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