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Be individuals, solitary and selfish, is the message. Altruism, a jargon word for what used to be called love, is worse than weakness, it is sin, a violation of nature. Be separate. Do not be a social animal. But this is a hard argument to make convincingly when you have to depend on language to make it. You have to print out leaflets or publish books and get them bought and sent around, you have to turn up on television and catch the attention of millions of other human beings all at once, and then you have to say to all of them, all at once, all collected and paying attention: be solitary; do not depend on each other. You can't do this and keep a straight face.

Lewis Thomas#11

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Arguing for extreme individualism is contradictory because it requires social cooperation and communication to spread.
In plain terms
You need to work with others to tell people not to work together.
What can you take from it?
Selfishness ignores how much we rely on each other.

Where it applies

  • political debates
  • self-help books
  • team projects

Putting it to work

  • recognize social needs
  • question selfish arguments
  • value collaboration

Questions to consider

  • Can you truly be independent?
  • Why do we need society?

Another view

Some individuals genuinely thrive in isolation.

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