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What does it mean?
Human meaning and virtue exist only in relation to other people; isolation removes our ability to perceive ourselves.
In plain terms
We need other people to understand ourselves and find meaning.
What can you take from it?
Valuate human connection as essential for meaning.

Where it applies

  • mental health
  • community building

Putting it to work

  • build community
  • seek reflection

Questions to consider

  • How do you define meaning?
  • Are you isolated?

Another view

Some meaning can be found internally or in nature.

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