Welcome to Barrayar, son. Here you go: have a world of wealth and poverty, wrenching change and rooted history. Have a birth; have two. Have a name. Miles means 'soldier,' but don't let the power of suggestion overwhelm you. Have a twisted form in a society that loathes and fears the mutations that have been its deepest agony. Have a title, wealth, power, and all the hatred and envy they will draw. Have your body ripped apart and re-arranged. Inherit an array of friends and enemies you never made. Have a grandfather from hell. Endure pain, find joy, and make your own meaning, because the universe certainly isn't going to supply it. Always be a moving target. Live. Live. Live.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Life involves inheriting complex burdens and must be shaped by personal meaning and resilience.
- In plain terms
- You inherit many challenges and must make your own meaning.
- What can you take from it?
- Create your own meaning.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What meaning are you making of your life?
- How do you endure pain?
Another view
It places heavy burden on individuals to create meaning alone.
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