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What does it mean?
Parental debt passes down to children or humanity instead of being repaid.
In plain terms
You cannot pay back parents; the debt goes to kids.
What can you take from it?
Accept parental debt is passed forward.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • inheritance
  • family therapy

Putting it to work

  • pass on values
  • accept the cycle

Questions to consider

  • What do you owe your parents?
  • Who pays the debt?

Another view

Not everyone has children to pass this on to.

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