I am who I choose to be. I always have been what I chose:though not always what I pleased.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Identity is formed by the choices we make, even if those choices do not always align with our immediate desires.
- In plain terms
- You become who you decide to become, regardless of whether you like every decision.
- What can you take from it?
- Own your choices as the defining factor of your identity.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What choices have defined you most?
- How do you align desire with decision?
Another view
Sometimes external circumstances limit our ability to choose freely.
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