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I know, Mother, you feel badly and that you would prefer to have me take some other course, if I could in conscience. Yet, Mother, I know you too well to suppose that you would wish me to turn away from what I think is my duty. I surely would not be a public speaker if I sought a life of ease, for it will be a most laborious one; nor would I do it for the sake of honor, for I know that I shall be disesteemed, even hated, by some who are now my friends, or who profess to be. Neither would I do it if I sought wealth, because I could secure it with far more ease and worldly honor by being a teacher. If I would be true to myself, true to my Heavenly Father, I must pursue that course of conduct which, to me, appears best calculated to promote the highest good of the world.

Lucy Stone#1

DutyConscienceIntegrity

About this quote

What does it mean?
Duty outweighs comfort or social approval.
In plain terms
Follow your conscience over others' wishes.
What can you take from it?
Do what feels right even if unpopular.

Where it applies

  • career choice
  • family conflict
  • ethical dilemma

Putting it to work

  • follow conscience
  • accept hardship
  • speak truth

Questions to consider

  • What is your duty now?
  • Who opposes it?

Another view

Integrity can isolate you.

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