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While the law dealt thus with her in regard to her property, it dealt still more hardly with her in regard to her children. No married mother could have any right to her child, and in most of the states of the Union that is the law to-day. But the law's in regard to the personal and property rights of women have been greatly changed and improved, and we are very grateful to the men who have done it.

Lucy Stone#31

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The law historically treated women harshly regarding child custody, denying married mothers rights to their children. While property rights have improved thanks to men, child rights remain unequal in many places.
In plain terms
Laws once gave mothers no rights to their children, though property rights have since improved.
What can you take from it?
Legal reforms helped women's property rights, but child custody laws still lag behind.

Where it applies

  • legal history research
  • family law debates
  • feminist advocacy

Putting it to work

  • advocate for custody reform
  • study historical laws
  • support equal parenting rights

Questions to consider

  • How have custody laws evolved since this was written?
  • What remains unequal in family law today?

Another view

The quote credits men for improvements but does not acknowledge the role of women activists in driving change.

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