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What does it mean?
Happiness occurs when your current self matches the person you wish to become.
In plain terms
You are happy when you are who you want to be.
What can you take from it?
Align your identity with your aspirations.

Where it applies

  • career planning
  • personal growth
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • set realistic goals
  • reflect on values
  • track progress

Questions to consider

  • What if your desired self changes over time?
  • How do you reconcile gaps between current and ideal self?

Another view

Constantly changing goals can make lasting happiness elusive.

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