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What does it mean?
If we tie all happiness to our circumstances, we end up demanding more from life than it can provide.
In plain terms
Relying only on external conditions for happiness leads to unrealistic expectations.
What can you take from it?
Cultivate inner sources of happiness.

Where it applies

  • career setbacks
  • financial stress

Putting it to work

  • practice gratitude
  • develop hobbies

Questions to consider

  • What can I control about my happiness?
  • How do I balance external and internal sources?

Another view

External factors still affect well‑being, so ignoring them entirely can be naïve.

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