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In general I might agree with you: women should not contemplate war, should not weigh tactics impartially, or evade the word enemy, or view both sides and denounce nothing. Women should march for peace, or hand out white feathers to arouse bravery, spit themselves on bayonets to protect their babies, whose skulls will be split anyway, or, having been raped repeatedly, hang themselves with their own hair. These are the functions that inspire general comfort. That, and the knitting of socks for the troops and a sort of moral cheerleading. Also: mourning the dead. Sons, lovers, and so forth. All the killed children.

Margaret Atwood#30

WarPeaceExpectationsGender roles

About this quote

What does it mean?
Society expects women to support war through comfort and mourning rather than strategy.
In plain terms
Women should march for peace or mourn the dead, not study tactics or enemy.
What can you take from it?
Question what roles society assigns to women in war.

Where it applies

  • war debates
  • social expectations
  • activism

Putting it to work

  • challenge gender norms
  • analyze roles

Questions to consider

  • What role should women play in war?
  • Why do we expect comfort over strategy?

Another view

Not everyone agrees these are the only roles women can take.

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