The position I early was enabled to take was one of self-reliance. And were all women as sure of their wants as I was, the result would be the same. But they are so overloaded with precepts and guardians who think that nothing is so much to be dreaded for a woman as originality of thought or character, that their minds are impeded with doubts till they lose their chance of fair, free proportions. The difficulty is to get them to the point from which they shall naturally develop self-respect, and learn self-help.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Fuller argues that women are discouraged from independent thought by societal expectations, and they must develop self‑respect and self‑help.
- In plain terms
- Women are held back by expectations and need to learn self‑reliance.
- What can you take from it?
- Encourage personal independence despite external pressures.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How can one nurture self‑respect in a restrictive environment?
- What barriers most hinder women's independence?
Another view
Changing deep‑rooted cultural norms can be very slow.
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