I am absurdly fearful, and various omens have combined to give me a dark feeling. I am become indeed a miserable coward, for the sake of Angelino. I fear heat and cold, fear the voyage, fear biting poverty. I hope I shall not be forced to be as brave for him, as I have been for myself, and that, if I succeed to rear him, he will be neither a weak nor a bad man. But I love him too much! In case of mishap, however, I shall perish with my husband and my child, and we may be transferred to some happier state.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Fuller admits to deep fear and cowardice, worried about poverty and the future of Angelino, yet loves him enough to accept possible death.
- In plain terms
- She feels terrified and cowardly, fearing poverty and Angelino’s future, but loves him still.
- What can you take from it?
- Love can coexist with fear and moral conflict.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When does love justify personal risk?
- How can one balance fear with responsibility?
Another view
Self‑denial may exacerbate anxiety.
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