Those who love to be feared fear to be loved, and they themselves are more afraid than anyone, for whereas other men fear only them, they fear everyone.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Those who seek fear over love live in constant anxiety because they dread universal retaliation.
- In plain terms
- People who want to be feared are actually more scared than everyone else.
- What can you take from it?
- Seeking fear isolates you and creates constant insecurity.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you want to be remembered?
- Is fear a sustainable form of control?
Another view
Sometimes fear is necessary for safety in dangerous environments.
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