From this arises the question whether it is better to be loved rather than feared, or feared rather than loved. It might perhaps be answered that we should wish to be both: but since love and fear can hardly exist together, if we must choose between them, it is far safer to be feared than loved.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- While being both loved and feared is ideal, if forced to choose, fear is safer because it relies on obligation rather than fickle affection.
- In plain terms
- If you can't be both, choose fear because love changes easily.
- What can you take from it?
- Fear is a more reliable tool for control than love.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is fear better than love?
- What keeps people loyal?
Another view
Fear alone can lead to rebellion and hatred.
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