Our treatment of both older people and children reflects the value we place on independence and autonomy. We do our best to make our children independent from birth. We leave them all alone in rooms with the lights out and tell them, Go to sleep by yourselves. And the old people we respect most are the ones who will fight for their independence, who would sooner starve to death than ask for help.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Western culture prioritizes independence for children and the elderly.
- In plain terms
- Independence is highly valued here.
- What can you take from it?
- Value autonomy but care for others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How independent is too much?
Another view
Interdependence is healthy.
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Our humanity rests upon a series of learned behaviors, woven together into patterns that are infinitely fragile and never directly inherited.
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