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What does it mean?
Publicly displaying emotions can be unwise; keeping them private allows them to function better.
In plain terms
Keep feelings inside where they work best.
What can you take from it?
Emotional restraint is strategic.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • public life
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • decision making
  • public speaking
  • conflict management

Questions to consider

  • Is hiding emotions healthier?
  • Do feelings work better in private?

Another view

It suggests emotions work best only when hidden.

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